The Seven Thorny Points of Divorce:

Seven thorny issues face divorcing couples and each weighs in at various stages as central decisions are made in a divorce. Mediation meets every couple wherever they need help, finds the common interest behind each concern, and facilitates making decisions that are as healthy as possible.

Use this scale to assess where you find yourself or your spouse at this time. Mediation can help you shift from fear to possibility.

1. Trust

No trust at all       1           2           3           4           5           6           Enough trust

2. Power

Imbalance            1           2           3          4             5          6           Equal footing

3. Emotional readiness

Overwhelmed        1           2           3          4           5           6          Ready to talk

4. Parenting issues

Polarized               1           2           3           4          5            6          Cooperative

5. Financial security

Scared                   1           2           3           4          5            6          Confident

6. Property decisions

Undecided              1           2           3           4          5            6           Decided

7. The future

Anxiety                   1           2           3           4          5            6          Hope